The Happier You

Hello friends, fans, and family, 
it is always said that the grass always looks green on the other side, in other terms it always seems like someone else has what you are seeking and just can't reach, for whatever reason. But the truth is, they have trouble too and they maybe looking at you the same way. Thinking that you have that something that they need and want. The bottom line is that you must work for it. Yes, you must earn it, and if you are doing something that you enjoy doing then it is not work. Nevertheless, there still will be days that you will not want to do anything. This process or struggle if you will is something that we contend with when we make a career change, go back to school and a long while off, getting into shape and/or being healthier. 
          You decide the pathway that you are going to take, yes, we all seek advice and hopefully we take advice from people who are trying to help us achieve our goals with good and solid advice but not all of our decisions are going to be great and that is okay. Just, learn from the mistakes and trying to improve. Be the best version of yourself that you ca be. Comparing yourself to someone else is only going to set you back in the long run, yes, it us okay to seek out people that you admire to emulate but know that they have there own pathway and you have yours. Your friend maybe able to lift more weights than you out of the box, do the best that you can and if you don't lift the same amount of weights and/or the same body design that some other person, that is okay too. 
          You should always strive to be the best version of yourself that you can be in anything that you choose to do. If you have a goal and it gets hard to continue to strive forward because you don't feel like getting up in the morning?! Well, to that I say suck it up and get you butt up. You have work to do and you can't get it done asleep in your bed. You may not feel that you can achieve it when you set out to do it, and that it understandable but realize that it is not impossible. Stay focus and plug away at it. Don't lose your focus. You are always going to have distractions, and pop ups as I put it that is apart of life. Those small moments of victory will prepare you for the big moments in life. No matter what you choose to do, fitness, going back to school, starting your own business, you can do it. Just don't give up and keep going. Yes, it is going to be hard and sometimes extremely hard but it is still not impossible. You can do it. 
          I am going to close with, encouragement is hard to come by sometimes. It seems like everyone is waiting for you to fail so they can say that they told you that you could not make it. Even though that does have an effect on you, you still should keep going because you can do it, and the only way that you fail is if you give up. So, never give up, keep going. You can do it, and I believe in you. You must eventually believe in yourself.